There is always room to turn up the volume in bed, and finding new pleasure zones is always a pleasure for both of people in a relationship. There's several ways to spice up your love life and make things between you and your partner more intimate, and getting creative with it can make all the difference.
"Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild," says Claire Cavanah, the co-founder of a national chain of sex shops called Babeland. So time to take your time, turn up the heat and try these powerful spots on your guy and see what happens next.
You don't have to have a foot fetish to enjoy a foot massage, but this one takes it a step further.
"Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do," Mark Michaels says, according to Shape. Michaels is the coauthor of a book "Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy and Long-Term Love."
"There is an acupressure point about one-third of the way down from the third toe, right in front of the arch in the center of the foot," he added. Press on this pressure point and get the blood flowing throughout his body, and then watch him come alive. No wonder guys love foot massages, it's all making sense now.
The small of your guy's back, right at the base of his spine in between his hips is where you will find the sacrum, a tiny triangular shaped bone. Some of the nerves in the sacrum are linked to the genitals, so be sure not to miss this pleasure spot. Stimulation of this delicate area can actually stimulate his other guy part - that's how pleasurable this sensitive spot can be.
Having your man lie on his stomach, give him a slow sensual massage and move your way down to his sacrum using light karate-chop movements on this sensitive area. "Doing this not only stimulates those sacral nerves, but also triggers the parasympathetic nervous system which is key for relaxing, letting go, and having an orgasm," said Michaels.
The frenulum, or the "F spot," is equivalent to the clitoris on a woman. Find the F spot on the underside of the penis, below the head. Nerve endings there are plentiful. "When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area. Use your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft," says Cavanah.
Arouse him slowly by going back and forth alternating between the ultra-sensitive F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
Another spot is the "P spot," for prostate gland. Located about three-quarters of a finger length inside his anus, you can actually feel the gland to know you have the right spot. It will feel like a walnut toward the base of his penis. This spot is as powerful as the female "G spot," says Michaels.
If you guy is game, and doesn't freak out over anal play, this could be amazing for him. Start gently at the perineum, that delightful stretch of skin between his anus and testicles and gently tickle the area, or even lick it, stimulating the gland. Done just right, is near bliss for your man, says Redbook. "A few soft strokes here will bring him to the brink," says Tracey Cox, author of "Supersex," according to Cosmopolitan.
"Have him lie on his back with his knees bent and legs spread apart, and then use your fist to apply even pressure to the area with quick vibration-like motions," instructs Michaels. Placing a finger inside his anus to reach the "P spot," and pressing with increased but gentle pleasure should have his toes curling in no time.
Making the most out of quality time with your partner can increase your passion as well as your pleasure. A new study tells us that the frequency of sex isn't as important as the quality, as previously reported by HNGN. So making time to mix it up a little and find new things to pleasure your partner is a sure fire way to keep those fires burning.
