What Is Microcheating? Here Are 5 Ways to Tell if You’re Guilty of It

You could already be micro-betraying your partner.

Many people on the internet are debating if microcheating is worse than traditional cheating or if it's just a term to justify unfaithfulness.

What is Microcheating? Here are 5 Signs to Check If You're Doing It
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The term "microcheating" has been used on numerous social media platforms ever since 2018, as reported by Yahoo Entertainment.

Although many in-a-relationship individuals agree that some unfaithful acts should be called microcheating, other people question the existence of this term.

Now, what exactly is microcheating? Here are the major details you need to know.

What is Microcheating?

The Daily Star explained that microcheating is an unfaithful act that doesn't involve kissing or having sexual intercourse with other individuals.

What is Microcheating? Here are 5 Signs to Check If You're Doing It
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The Citizen provided some examples of microcheating, such as hiding private conversations on social media with people of the opposite sex and casually flirting in the office.

But, the meaning of microcheating may still vary depending on cultural norms.

"Perception of these behaviors varies widely and is influenced by individual and cultural norms," explained Lisa Welsh, a sex educator.

She added that an example of this is how other people see casual flirting. In certain cultures, this act is perceived as harmless banter.

But, for some individuals, casual flirting is a serious act of cheating.

5 Signs of Microcheating

There's no denying that microcheating is a very complicated relationship term.

It could include actions that may seem harmless to you but are actually a big deal for your partner.

Microcheating can lead to endless conflicts in your relationship. This is why it would be best if you're the one who will avoid microcheating.

To help you further, here are some signs that will help you know if you're already microcheating on your partner:

  • Being overly flirtatious with your officemates or other individuals.
  • Having secret conversations with your previous partners.
  • Removing your wedding ring (if married) when going out without your partner.
  • Liking strangers' pictures, especially those that are too revealing.
  • Having deep conversations with people whom your partner is uncomfortable with.

There are some instances when your usual activities could be considered by your partner as microcheating. To avoid making things worst, it would be best if you and your partner set some boundaries in the relationship that both of you will agree to.

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