Winter is coming, and coupled with the three months of back-to-back-to-back holidays comes the innate need for humans to nest. Think of it as our hibernation period. But do you want to hibernate alone? Probably not, as most of us, even the singles, look at this as a time to nest up, snuggle in and find someone special to at least get us through the holidays, if not the rest of our lives.
Are you sabotaging that love nest with the wrong energy? Without knowing it, you could very well be repelling love, instead of inviting it. Here are some quick and easy Feng Shui solutions to jazz up the bedroom and inviting the positive energy needed for a healthy happy relationship.
Feng Shui is the ancient Asian art of placement that enhances the positive, limits the negative and keeps things harmonious. Since we spend so much time in the bedroom sleeping, enhancing that area to bring about love makes perfect sense as a start for us to give Feng Shui a chance.
Start by adding pairs of things. Looking to find love with another means a pair, so pairs are key. While the decorating mavens told us in the past to group in threes, for the bedroom, two is the key. Think of a pair of candlesticks, a pair of framed prints, a pair of nightstands. You get the message here. And watch for single items; no one of anything, unless you want to be alone.
Surprisingly, the position of the bed is very important as well. The worst placement? With your feet directly facing the door. If this is your current bed position, expect love to continue to walk out the door, according to Feng Shui experts. Find a better placement.
Are you prepared for someone to come into your life? You should start by making room for them before you even meet them. Have a nightstand drawer empty, some space in the closet and a dresser drawer empty as well. This allows room for someone to move into your life while providing an energetic space for love, according to The Elephant Journal. Make room.
We are a generational picture-loving species; selfies, family photos, you name it, and we capture it. But these do not belong in the bedroom. Fill the rest of your home with family photos, but they don't have any business in the bedroom, according to The Huffington Post. Banish them immediately to more welcoming areas like the living spaces in your home.
The energy of love, says Know Feng Shui, is much like the light we garner from the sun, and we relish it, thrive in it and need it. For many, love seems to come easily, but keeping it seems to be problematic, and then there are those that have difficulty attracting it, rarely getting to the maintaining and keeping love stage. Both of these personalities could use a little good energy, a little Feng Shui in their lives. Start with one step, then another. It shouldn't be long before love comes knocking.
