While love shouldn't be cheap, dating can get quite expensive. Yet for couples who have been together for quite some time, the dates aren't about being cheap; they're more about being comfortable around each other. There could be many lazy evenings together, but that can get old. Sometimes, switching things up is important in order to keep the spark in your relationship, according to the New York Times.
Below are some ways couples can keep enjoying each other's company, minus the luxury or effort that's more common with first dates:
1) Fall is ripe for sports and other local events like art and music festivals, flea market or farmer's market openings or block parties. Tickets and entrance fees for these are typically inexpensive. Check your local area for listings. Expense tracking: $ to $$.
2) Camp in the backyard or in the great outdoors and cuddle next to a bonfire. If you're not fond of bonfires, lit up the area with citronella candles for a more romantic ambience. Don't forget to bring the necessities like bug spray and blankets so that you don't have to keep going in and out of the house, according to Hitch Magazine. Expense tracking: 0
3) Play board games together with mood music playing in the background. To up the ante for this relaxing break, establish a prize or perk for whoever wins the game, such as foot rub or a warm bubble bath. Expense tracking: 0
4) Go to the roller rink or bowling alley, then enjoy an ice cream afterwards. This is perhaps how your parents used to date as teenagers and it's still fun to do today. Expense tracking: $
5) Try apple picking. Check out the most recommended apple picking sites in these areas: New York, New Jersey, Boston and other states. Expense tracking: $ to $$
6) Go to a local night spot with a live band and enjoy the music of homegrown artists. Expense tracking: $ to $$
7) Learn a new dance together. While this could cost a bit more, you'll also get a workout in the process. A physical activity like dancing is a stress reliever and you're likely to feel energized afterwards, according to Stress Management Society. Expense tracking: $$
